Power vs Competence

I created dystil for myself to help feel like I'm living in my purpose which includes doing right by God and somehow enjoying life while elite pedo rings run the World and will never face justice. It's challenging but I'm game and uniquely in my zone when getting to think about the hardest problems. I want a place that feels like home for conversations like power vs competence. In my opinion, the intentional indoctrination of college age women was by design to intentionally confuse these two words: power and competence. Because of this, it's nearly impossible to feel understand or get on the same page with anyone in this age group or college educated people. Ladies, pussy has always run the World. It will always run the World. Let's stop acting like it doesn't. You've just been brainwashed into thinking that it runs the World in a different kind of way. Guys that are competent and excel are absolute savage operators, will sacrifice everything and forego kids sometimes to win. I want you to enter the work field and compete if that's your unique curiosity but you have to be honest with yourself that this is the speed and sacrifice guys go at and will not stop until they win. And they do this for the aforementioned reason. If they do it for the right version of the aforementioned reason it's because they just want one pussy for the rest of their life. It's very hard to find guys like this but that's where to look. They're competent and have wives already or want a wife that gets their level of focus and commitment. This is gonna be labeled as "mansplaining" because that's the hell hole we're in. Words and definitions are being changed that were already subjective and the accompanying fall out with that is you quickly have a tribe that is united on something that's incorrect. So much so that the only logical way to stay with the tribe is you have to agree on this original reason we came together which is hating a group of people that are competent and work hard. The empowerment women have naturally, biologically, and evolutionarily is necessary for men to be the best version of themselves. Especially men that sacrificed everything to win. These types of guys also need the balance of a woman to hold power over them. This power is something closer to intelligent femininity. I've hung out with this girl a couple of times who's a younger budding entrepreneurial spirit. She's deeply curious, sincere, and very sharp. She's going to university studying economics but doesn't know how bond markets work or what Austrian economics is. I had to be direct with her that I think getting an economics degree shows you don't understand economics. She took this amazingly well and agreed so she naturally asked for help because she detected some honesty. I should mention at this point that this girl is incredibly attractive and I'm much older. We decided to lay out some boundaries and I admitted to her that I don't think I could help her much more because I am becoming attracted to her. I felt frustrated because I was being honest. I felt frustrated because we both agreed that our hangouts were the most exciting ways to spend the day. I've heard from many woman that there are no good men left. My honest take on what happened is that my purpose is a family and doing right by God and even though she's younger, we have a crazy amount of compatability that would be harder and harder to ignore and I may cross a line or misread something. To her credit she was like, "To be clear, I'm not here for that at all". Here's where dystil comes in. I told her I was gonna write something on dystil and share it with her. I explained what my life is like and has always been like. I get into these situations because I do whatever is interesting to me and always have done that. So of course I wanted to hang out with her. The power and competence dynamic came up when she was trying to work through the masculine and feminine dynamics of the World and workplace. I admitted to her multiple times that you are 100% here because you are attractive and because this is my favorite stuff in the World to talk about. If I got into a chat with a dude with the same curiosity, I would have still really enjoyed it but it would have kept over text or coffees occassionally and I'd just sent him the same list I sent to you to look at. I can't deny where my heart goes or turn it off unfortunately. This should have been a much easier discussion without frustration but it's not. I blame the intentional misleading of competence and power as to why these types of easier conversations are not happening anywhere online or enjoyably in person around really interesting topics. The best men I know are competent at their jobs where they excel and they're commtted to their families. The best examples to see in the World of who to follow and how to excel are intentionally labeled as power grabbing instead of just hard work. The result of this is you end up being in these types of conversations and people don't realize what their minds have been programmed to think. Being honest and trying to get them to think differently will always be wildly awkward and frustrating. Of course I'm gonna want to hang out with a curious and beautiful woman that has high agency because my purpose is to have a family but I also want to have as much fun as possible building it. So that's exactly what I'm screening for. But I also have to make sure I'm taking care of myself by not crossing lines that are easy for me cross. I think I did the right thing by being honest about why I was excited to work with her but I can't get any closer. And yes I 100% hope one day she has a new perspective on what I was trying to help her get because she's actually one of the good ones.

PDJ